Pája ...having times of my life

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Pangkor Island - Full Moon PARTY

Following up on the previous post, I have to assure everyone, that the upwards trend is successfully carrying on. :) This weekend I spent on an island, not far from KL. Breeze, waves, sun, fun, unwind, party…

4 of us (Katalina from Colombia, me, Edu and Edu’s Malay colleague) set off by car on Saturday morning. We reached Pangkor Island around noon and went strait to the beach. I couldn’t help myself and called home, since I knew how different the weather in the Czech Republic is. I sent some sun to my mum & let her listen to the waves :P

In the evening, there was a “Spanish Full Moon Party” = beach+music+people+alcohol :P Party started slowly around 11pm, while continuing with water-pipe, dancing on the beach under full moon. At midnight a “Religious Police” came and told us to switch off the music, because the Malay (Muslim) community is not happy with the loud music&idea of the party. So we switched off. After one hour we continued till 3am :P

Sunday was very relaxing, waking up late, eating breakfast while having perfect sea view, beach, sunbathing. We rented canoes and went to the island opposite of our beach. My first time canoeing on the sea :) On the island I saw the special birds with double nose :)
It was sad to leave, but I had a great time with awesome relax :)

Friday, November 23, 2007

The "V" Phases

Once people are abroad, they are going through different phases. These phases usually form the shape of V (with the reintegration it is a shape of W). Phase 1 - Coming to the country, exploring it, new culture excitement. Phase 2 - Getting used to the culture, stereotypes… At the certain point I reached the bottom, of the “V” letter, phase 3. This bottom, I think, came last week.
I like Malaysia, it’s variety & exotic temper. BUT I started to suffer from the culture overdose, I got indifferent towards the local cultures, took seriously things that don’t need to be taken seriously, I don’t like strangers, who approach me all the time “hi, how are you”… Yeah, at certain point of time I am just fed up with all this. Plus, the fact that Xmas is coming, my Heart will leave to travel several thousands km away for a while, my internship is slowly coming to the end and also hassle planning of my big trip at the end of my stay here.
This all caused that last week I broke down. I did not expect it. Again a new experience came. Fear, being fed up, insecurity… The whole “bottom process” lasted about a week. Weekend full of relax helped me. Laying at our swimming pool & chatting, having fun with Tya, visiting museum of Islam here in KL, go to the Cinema with Neha (my jungle colleague) and nice evenings helped me to jump from the bottom to “better tomorrows” phase :P I am thankful to my flat mate Tya and other friends here & Edu and my parents & friends home, who helped me to overcome this.
Yep, it is cool to have ppl, who take me back to my happiness :) So now I am ready to complete the “V” shape with upwards trend curve :P
I believe when these phase appears, some little change & step out of the stereotype is needed. Also relax proved to be a good medicine…

Thursday, November 15, 2007

NaLDS 2005 reflection

National Leadership & Development Seminar 2005 in Germany ment a lot for me. Since it is exactly 2 years back and NaLDS2007 has just finished i am kind of reflecting on what happened within these 2 years since I have come back.
NaLDS is VERY different conference from the others I have attended(i think it was about 30 conferences). One week focusing on yourself, your values&visions... basicly digging deep into yourself, discovering what is there.
I think since then not that many things changed. I just got more self-confident, got various valuable international experience, my network of friends has expanded & I realized many things, learned a lot. My thought i brought from NaLDS 2005 was, that whatever I do, I should be happy. It is not true actually, I realized withing following years. Sometimes you have to "suffer" for your happiness. And if you deserve it, it will come. Moreover some things, I dont work out that much anymore. I simply believe that some things are "ment to be"...
My values from two years ago also hasn't changed much, there is core of these, that are important for me and I think I stick to them.
When I look back, the people from my workshop are doing well, i am still in touch with some, they took up leadership positions, are MC or on the internship. In many of our decisions NaLDS palyed a role - even if a small one - it did. Here I see the sense of organizing such a conferences. So few time to think of ourselves, what we want, what we believe in, what we want to be, where we want to head...

There are experiences in your life, that you will remember forever. NaLDS 2005 would be definitelly part of these kind of events.

Saturday, November 10, 2007

How did I become the Tarzan

This post might be a bit longer than the others. So if you feel like travel with me to the oldest National park in the World, get yourself a cup of something nice, expect unexpectable & let's go for a jungle trip!

Taman Negara (translation is a National Park) is 130 million year old jungle, nowadays National Park of Malaysia. I chose it as a destination of my next trip. I wanted to experience the real jungle. 3 people joined me- Neha,my colleague(India)&other trainees- Martin(Germany), Aaron(Canada). Before the trip we made a big fuzz out of it, googling what to take to the jungle & ppl made fun of us, that we wrote down a list of all important things like mosquito repelent, things against leeches, knives...
Our trip was for 3 days & 2 nights.

We set of on Thursday morning - travelled 3 hours with the bus, followed by a 3 hours lasting wooden-boat trip on a wide&dirty Pahang river to the place of our stay - Mutiara Taman Negara Hotel (the only one in the jungle, luxurious place, but we stayed in the hostel rooms, nice too). We could book different trips there (get a guide, pay&go)

Our first trip was to the Orang Asli settlement - Aboriginies people of Malaysia. Very interesting. The tribe we visited, have their own jungle janguage (tum=river), live in the jungle, make their living out of wood, hunt animals for food. We were showned how they make a fire. View a video here! Women there live separate from men and in the tribe (aprox.20ppl) there is a chief, who is "leader" of the group plus a doctor, since they take all the medicin out of the jungle. We spent there about half an hour and then strong wind started to blow, leaves from high trees started to fall down and sky became dark. We could see lightenings coming, plus thunders make the atmosphere in the jungle pretty "scary"... This was the point of time I started to respect the jungle.
We went home. The rain has started. We had our dinner = things we brought from home.
The next trip we booked was the Night Jungle Walk. We were praying it stops raining. In the case, it was raining, our walk would be cancled. Our prayers were successfull. We went.
Raincoat(what if it starts to rain again), flash light, long sleaves, long pants (all against leeches), mosquito repellent, mobile phone. Courage.
At 9pm we set off. We plus other 10ppl and our guide. We left behind our comfy hostel site and entered a real jungle. High trees, different plants, all green(black at night:P), On the way we saw sleeping birdies, small, medium& big spiders. When I say big, I mean it! In the middle of the walk it started to rain a bit. The canopy (upper part of the trees with the leaves) managed to contol the rain till a certain point, so we did not get wet too much. But the rain became stronger. In a while it was a typical rainforrestial rain :) The path become muddy. Walking over roots, having flash light that doesnt shine much, raining like hell - in the middle of the oldest rainforrest.
I couldnt help myself I had to share my feelings and I called my mum, all the way from the jungle to the Czech Republic:)
We came home afer 1 hour, wet, muddy, but happy! & slept like babies!

Next day, Friday, was THE JUNGLE DAY!
We started our day with a bufet breakfast. Yamiiii!
The plan of the day were two activities - Jungle tracking & Cave exploring.
Jungle tracking was a daily walk in the jungle. During the day the jungle looks different. Different sounds, many trees, flowers, animals, muddy track. My shoes were in a while dirty. A little movie here. In a group of 10ppl we reached soon a "Canopy walk way", which is 45 meters lifted walk way, while you are climbing in the trees, watching the forrest, rivers from above. AWESOME feeling:) See yourself!!!! We continued our tracking with climbing a 334m mountain. Some of us gave up, cause it was a steep walk. I did not and decided to sweat my shirt from inside out. The view was worth it. On the way down we met a wild pig & I swang on the liana like a Tarzan :)
We came home all exhausted, hungry, longing for a sleep. I took a shower-aaaaa... so good! & had the best canned Bake Beans ever. Not really time for sleep, cause we continued with Cave Exploring. All 4 of us came to the meeting point with our guide with no temper, sleepy, silent and tired. We were said that this tour is mostly sitting in a boat, looking at the cave, seeing some bats, tracking a while in a jungle, so we thought we gonna get some rest.
BUT.


Now... here comes the adventure of my life...

We took a boat, about 10 minutes, that brought us to the place from where we had to track to the cave. We were about 7 ppl plus our guide. OK, let's go. Some of us had a slight difficulties with the tracking, since the path reminded of muddy ponds that led through many unexpectable roots of the forrest trees. The way to the cave was not easy and my trousers and shoes were resembled soon advertisment on dirt.Nevertheless, all of us reached the cave. Our guide told us to leave bags we carried in front of the cave, since there might be some tight places in the cave. I took my camera and money. The plan was a boat and relaxed admiring of cave. The reality was: while entering the cave we had to try hard to climb the stones to get in. Right at the beginning two ladies gave up. We continued crawling through a little streem of water. My feet were wet. Mud was gone :) Trying hard not to get wet my camera. There were at least 3 tough points. One just when we entered the cave. I did not expect what has just come and it was kinda shock for me. Second when we were in the middle of the cave and we had to dip our legs till knees in the river. In the river I saw snakes!, and above my head were flying bats. When I lighten up the ceiling of the cave i could see hundreds(!) of bats. The toughest point was, when i had to squeeze in one very narrow cave spot. Creeping through dirt, little space, water... By that time I was calming myself down&hoping i can get out of this place soon. We spent in that cave about 20 minutes. By the time I saw the Sun again, while leaving the cave I felt like this was the adventure of my life&I was grateful&happy I made it. When we came back to the place we left our bags and friends, who did not want to get it, my hands were still shaking . During thesame muddy way back my shoes got dirty again. However by that time I did not care about any kind of insect - mosquitos, leeches. Nothing. I was glad I made it and I was looking forward to the shower and dinner.
As an award for all of us we went for a fancy dinner (bufet style) and ordered a beer. We&our Indian friends, who we met on our Cave trip, had a lot of fun during the dinner & later on while playing cards.
The last interesting advanture was, when at night I woke up&wanted to go to the bathroom, which was next door. At about 5am I opened the door and on the porch, there was a wild pig staring at me. I closed the door immediately. The pig flipped over the dust bin in front of our door. Looked what it can eat and went away, back to the jungle. Just then I was allowed to go to the bathroom.



We left our cool hostel today morning, full of advanture and unforgetable memories.

Wednesday, November 07, 2007

Happy Deepavali to everyone!!

This culture diversity brings many big celebrations in a quick point of time. Hari Raya was the big celebration for all the Muslims at the end of Ramadan (last month), now the festival of lights – Indian Diwali/Deepavali is coming. Indians all round Malaysia/the World are celebrating their biggest festival. Christmas are coming soon. That is gonna be MY big celebration! Looks like my roomies are staying home too, so I will not be alone :)

At work the funny thing during these festivals is, that the day before the actual celebration, we can go home ONE hour earlier. For these who are celebrating the festival (Muslims-Hari Raya, Indians-Divali, Christians-Xmas) can go home TWO hours earlier :) So I have to wait nowadays. But my turn of short working day will come on Xmas :)

I truly like getting to know so many cultures at one point of time. I try to get the most out of it, listen to different cultures and sometimes I am pretty shocked. The way of living life is very different for different nationalities. I am happy & grateful living my life like this.

Monday, November 05, 2007

Czech weekend

Finally, after 5 months the days has come :)

On Saturday I received email from Skvara (Ex Czech MCP) and his friend that they have just arrived to KL and want to meet me. They were backpacking for already some time(which everyone can see from their image :P) and on the way to KL Skvara lost his passport. And his friend was lucky to get Dengue fever! Anyway, things were ok now and we met in KLCC Starbuck’s & had a nice chat in CZECH! :) Talking to ppl face to face in Czech, after 5 months is a cool feeling. First a bit strange (my Czech sentence structure was rather vague) but then I got into it again! Ppl should never forget their native language even when living long time abroad, I think.
Later on in the evening we all went for a “Haloween party” that we trainees had on Sat night. I also invited Czech guys. The party was ok, but with the only bug - I realized (shame on me) that I cant drink alcohol anymore. After one beer my stomach refused to drink more :( Dunno what is happening with this, but I hope will get well soon!At the pic i am drinking plain water!!!

Ppl were having different different scary disguises – but the one, that had the most success was the Mike’s one – “Facebook costume” :) I was a fairy :)
Sunday was hard to wake up – at least for some ppl for sure… and with Tya, Neha & Eduardo we went to a “Walk Through Prague” Photo Exhibition. This was organized with a cooperation with a Czech ambassy.
Jiri Vsetecka, the Czech photographer had his presentation on photo and also I had the opportunity to show my friends how Prague looks like, which I enjoyed enormously. I also did some networking – got to know Czech ambassador, some other Czech ppl … and talked Czech J I got to know, that in KL live about 35 Czechs. Just 35 :) I hope we can gather for Xmas or something.
Later on we went to the Expat qarter “Bukit Bintang” and had our lunch in one of the newest shopping malls in KL. We were lucky to get a nice sofa in Indonesian donut place… Very relaxing to have a coffee and a tasty donut!!!!
In the evening I cooked “polivku z pytliku – poctivou hovezi” Czech soup – this was the end of Czech weekend :)

Friday, November 02, 2007

Cau Decka :)

What’s up? No, tak se celkem nic zajimaveho nedeje. Leading normal working life. Office, domu, vecere, spat… to same den co den. Vikend, pivko, alkohol, spim spim spim, Monday… :P

Musim priznat, ze celkem consciously thinking na muj konec tady, ktery se blizi. Planuju vejlet do Thajska a do Kambodzi v unoru. Koukam kdy budou zapisy do skoly, jaka to bude zabiracka az si dam Ekonomii 2 a taky myslim na moje Vanoce tady. With my parents uz pripravujem predpotopni plan jak prezijem den bez rodiny pospolu – pohadky, stromecek, ryba a salat. Prezili jinni, preziju taky :P Mrzi me jen, ze jsem zmeskala tatkovo oslavu 50tin :(

Jsem rada, ze jsem ve spojeni s kamaradama z domova – velky thanks klukum z Prahy – Hajence a Jardovi, nedavno jsme se po skypu tak nasmala… :) Diky Facebooku jsem up to date se vsim co se kde sustne – kdo s kym je in the relationship :P a kdo no longer listed as single :) sranda. Ted se blizi doba NaLDS – uz to je two years co jsem se ucastnila, ale stejne to ma na me stejnej impact.. rozjimam a reflektuju co a jak se zmenilo. Myslenka dne/ The thought of the day: Drive jsem chtela byt za kazdou cenu stale happy. Dneska vim, ze to tak nelze. Clovek musi obcas obetovat veci kvuli jinym vecem, diky nim se bude v budoucnu citit krasne a happy. A pak si toho pocitu of happiness vice vazim…

Moje favourite place v Kuala Lumpur je uz od doby co jsem sem prijela park u Petronas towers. Ve stredu vecer jsem tam zas zasla a rozjimala, did some reflection a jen si uzivala ten obrazek – petronas towers in light, osvetlena Fontana, lidi sedici povidajici… Mam rada tu atmosferu tam …

Dalsi vec v kterou verim je, ze aspon co jsem tady, nechci zasadne zasahovat do meho byti a osudu tady – co se ma stat, stane se. Stejne tak random jsem skonicla pri mem traineeship hunt v Malajsii. Nechavam otazku vztahu, kamaradstvi, prace a traveling otevrenou. Clovek nikdy nedokaze presne vsecko naplanovat, tak se snazim aspon trochu planovat a zbytek nechavam na osudu, jak to ma byt, tak to bude… Nekdy je skoda se kvuli vecem zbytecne stresovat.
For English speaking: Sorry, but this is just a random sharing in Czech... not a big deal :P